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Mandy says:
November 7, 2011 at 3:29 pm
If her Facebook status was something like “I’m losing my voice! It sounds all deep and raspy. I bet guys would find this super sexy”, then I don’t think it’s disrespectful. It’s simply an observation. I don’t think the gender role matters here. I don’t think referring to the opposite gender, on a whole, in reference to what they stereotypically find attractive is disrespectful in any way. And as for the outfit, her friend said “Guys are gonna love your boobies!” or whatever in front of her and her boyfriend (the OP). And she silently agreed? Well, yeah, that’s a fact. I don’t see how that’s disrespectful either.
I’ll just agree to disagree.
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Horace says:
November 8, 2011 at 12:07 pm
You suggest an important point. There’s a difference between her referring to guys, in general, and some specific guy.
This certainly has more to do with his insecurities than any failing of hers.
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Why Creepy Guys Don’t Get Laid
Smell Like A Champ
The Numbers Game
Observations on Asian Girls
Game Plus One
The Secrets To Online Dating For Men
The Secrets To Online Dating For Women
The Most Neglected Aspect of Game: Body Language
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Mandy says:
November 7, 2011 at 3:29 pm
If her Facebook status was something like “I’m losing my voice! It sounds all deep and raspy. I bet guys would find this super sexy”, then I don’t think it’s disrespectful. It’s simply an observation. I don’t think the gender role matters here. I don’t think referring to the opposite gender, on a whole, in reference to what they stereotypically find attractive is disrespectful in any way. And as for the outfit, her friend said “Guys are gonna love your boobies!” or whatever in front of her and her boyfriend (the OP). And she silently agreed? Well, yeah, that’s a fact. I don’t see how that’s disrespectful either.
I’ll just agree to disagree.
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Horace says:
November 8, 2011 at 12:07 pm
You suggest an important point. There’s a difference between her referring to guys, in general, and some specific guy.
This certainly has more to do with his insecurities than any failing of hers.
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